The Temptations – “Treat Her Like a Lady”
Released: 1984
Album: Truly for You
Written by: Ali-Ollie Woodson, Otis Williams
Produced by: Ali-Ollie Woodson, Otis Williams
Peak Chart Positions:
- No. 2 on the Billboard R&B Chart
- No. 48 on the Billboard Hot 100
- No. 12 in the UK Singles Chart
About the Song
“Treat Her Like a Lady” marked a triumphant return to form for The Temptations in the 1980s, showcasing the talent and versatility of their then-new lead singer Ali-Ollie Woodson. Released as the lead single from their 31st studio album, Truly for You, this song exemplified the group’s ability to evolve while staying true to their signature soulful sound.
The song is a celebration of respect and chivalry in relationships, urging men to honor and cherish their partners. Its upbeat tempo, infectious melody, and polished production highlighted the modern yet classic Temptations sound of the era.
Origins and Writing
Ali-Ollie Woodson, who joined the group in 1983, brought not only his dynamic baritone voice but also his talents as a songwriter and instrumentalist. Woodson had initially begun working on “Treat Her Like a Lady” during his time in New York in the late 1970s, following his stint with Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes.
When Woodson became part of The Temptations, he refined the song alongside Otis Williams, the group’s founding member. Their collaboration resulted in a track that was both contemporary and timeless, fitting seamlessly into The Temptations’ legendary c atalog.
Chart Success and Legacy
“Treat Her Like a Lady” climbed to No. 2 on the Billboard R&B chart, becoming The Temptations’ biggest hit since 1975’s “Shakey Ground.” While it didn’t reach similar heights on the Billboard Hot 100, it achieved significant success in the UK, peaking at No. 12 and becoming one of their most enduring songs in the region.
The single helped to reestablish The Temptations as a force in the R&B scene during the 1980s, with critics and fans alike praising Woodson’s contributions. Fellow Temptations member Richard Street called Woodson “a bright and shining star,” acknowledging his creative influence on the group’s direction.
Legacy and Influence
“Treat Her Like a Lady” remains a standout track in The Temptations’ extensive discography. It’s frequently included in their live performances and greatest hits compilations, serving as a testament to the group’s resilience and adaptability over decades of changing musical trends.
Woodson’s impact on the group extended beyond this single, as he continued to write and perform on their subsequent albums, leaving a lasting imprint on The Temptations’ legacy. Through its message of respect and its infectious groove, “Treat Her Like a Lady” continues to resonate with audiences, reinforcing the timeless appeal of The Temptations.
Lyrics
Treat her like a lady
Hey, hey, hey
Instrumental
Ooh-ooh-oh-ooh-oh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-oh-ooh
Ooh, yeah, baby
Whoa-whoa-oh-oh
Mmm
Now I-m the kinda guy who don’t believe
That chivalry is dead, no
‘Cause I believe a woman should be treated
With the utmost respect, mmm-hmm-
Don’t be afraid, don’t turn and walk away
I wanna get to know ya, well
Don’t be ashamed, don’t say that love’s to blame
Just come and look me over
You’ll find a heart that you’ve always been lookin’ for
How could anybody ask for much more, woo-hoo-
Now I like openin’ doors
Pickin’ up (Yeah) her hanky (Yeah) off the floor
Treat her like a lady
Light her cigarette if she smokes
Even (Help her with her coat) well
Treat her like a lady
In this world of liberation
It’s so easy to forget, mmm-
That it’s so nice to have a man around
To lend a helping hand, you can bet, bet you can, baby
When I was young, my mama used to say, boy
A woman’s like a flower, with love on her you shower
Ever since that day, her words never went away
I always will remember to treat my baby tender
You’ll find a heart that you’ve always been lookin’ for
How could anybody ask for much more, whoa-ooh-ooh-
Now I like openin’ doors
Pickin’ up (Yeah) her hanky off the floor
Treat her like a lady
Light her cigarette if she smokes
Even help her with her coat
Treat her like a lady
Compliment her on her hair
Even help her with her chair
Treat her like a lady
She’s a bad son-of-a-gun
I’m her lovin’ Don Juan
Treat her like a lady
Ooh-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo-ooh-
Whoa-oh-oh-
Hey-hey-
Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-baby
Every day, ever way
Hey, hey
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey
You’ll find a heart that you’ve always been lookin’ for
How could anybody ask for much more, whoa-whoa-oh-ooh-
Now I like openin’ doors
Pickin’ up her hanky off the floor
Treat her like a lady
Light her cigarette if she smokes
Even help her with her coat, help her out
Treat her like a lady
Compliment her on her hair
Even help her with her chair
Treat her like a lady
Now boy, you should remember
To be a gentleman
Treat her like a lady (Treat her like a lady)
Treat her like, treat her like (Hey-ey-)
Treat her like a lady (Treat her like a lady)
Treat her like (Well), treat her like
Treat her like a lady (Treat her like a lady)
Treat her like, treat her like (Ooh-hoo-)
Treat her like a lady (Hoo-hoo-oh, my, my, treat her like a lady)AdvertisementAdvertisement
