About the Song

Neil Diamond’s “Solitary Man,” recorded in January 1966 and released that April by Bang Records, marked his debut as a solo recording artist. Before this, Diamond had found moderate success as a songwriter, with other artists recording his songs. “Solitary Man” became his first charting single, peaking at No. 55 on the U.S. pop singles chart and later reaching No. 21 when re-released in 1970. It was also featured on his first album, The Feel of Neil Diamond.

Described as a “ballad of a loner looking for love,” the song’s themes of solitude and longing have become emblematic of Diamond’s early career. In the lyrics, the narrator reflects on his failed relationships and his doubts about finding lasting love, singing, “I know it’s been done, having one girl who loves you,” but fearing it may never happen for him. Diamond later revealed in interviews that he saw himself in the lyrics, admitting that, after years of self-reflection, he realized the song was a deeply personal expression.

Upon its re-release in 1970, Billboard praised the track’s “solid dance beat and excellent production,” while Record World lauded the acoustic backing that allowed Diamond’s voice to shine. Diamond recorded two versions of the song: one featuring his own harmonic vocals and a female chorus, and a second stripped-down version without harmonies, offering a raw take on the song’s introspective lyrics.

“Solitary Man” stands as a classic anthem of heartbreak, and its personal touch has resonated with listeners for decades. The song’s success launched Diamond’s solo career, introducing his signature reflective style to the world.

Lyrics

Melinda was mine till the time
That I found her
Holdin’ Jim
And lovin’ him
Then Sue came along, loved me strong
That’s what I thought
Yeah, me and Sue
Well, that died too
Don’t know that I will
But until I can find me
A girl who’ll stay and
Won’t play games behind me
And I’ll be what I am
A solitary man
Solitary man
I’ve had it to here
Bein’ where love’s a small word
Part-time thing
Paper ring
I know it’s been done
Havin’ one girl who loves you
Right or wrong
Weak or strong
Don’t know that I will
But until I can find me
A girl who’ll stay and
Won’t play games behind me
I’ll be what I am
A solitary man
Solitary man
Don’t know that I will
But until I can find me
A girl who’ll stay and
Won’t play games behind me
I’ll be what I am
Solitary man
Solitary man
Mm-mm-mm-hm, oh-oh
Solitary man
Mm-mm-mm-hm, oh-oh
Solitary man
Hm-hm-mm-hm

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